Every year, something beautiful happens in the Outer Banks. Amid the salty breeze and the laid-back rhythm of this coastal Carolina haven, LGBTQ joy takes center stage at OBX Pridefest. It’s a celebration of identity, community, and the freedom to be exactly who you are—flip-flops, glitter, and all.
Whether you're a seasoned Pride-goer or new to the scene, this guide will give you everything you need to make the most of your Pride weekend in OBX. We’ve got you covered from event details to LGBTQ-owned businesses to must-know travel tips.
What to Expect: Events
Kick-off Party at Swells ’a Brewing in Kill Devil Hills
Start Pride weekend with a casual vibe, craft beer, and good company at this LGBTQ-affirming brewery.
Drag Brunch at Secret Island Tavern
Fuel your weekend with mimosas and fierce performances by local queens. Reservations are highly recommended.
OBX Pride Festival at Roanoke Island Festival Park
This free, family-friendly celebration includes live music, food trucks, artists, and local vendors. The waterfront views alone are worth the trip to Manteo.
Evening Concert at Secret Island Tavern
Expect big energy and dancing. It's the perfect after-dark follow-up to the day festival.
Beach Party at the Bonnet Street Beach Access, Nags Head
Wrap up the weekend with sun, surf, and sand. Think music, community, and one last chance to soak in the Pride vibes with new friends.
Getting There & Staying There
The Outer Banks are accessible by car from major cities on the East Coast, and the nearest major airport is in Norfolk, Virginia, just a scenic 1.5- to 2-hour drive away.
For accommodations, options range from cozy inns and boutique hotels to vacation rentals perfect for groups. Prefer nature? Camping on OBX offers a rustic and queer-friendly option just minutes from the beach.
Why Pride Matters in the Outer Banks
Across the country, queer and trans rights are facing challenges. But in OBX, the affirming energy of Pridefest and the visible support from local businesses offer a counterbalance, making this a safe, celebratory space for LGBTQ+ travelers.
As a visibly queer woman, I was struck by how natural and welcoming it felt to be myself in the Outer Banks. It’s in the little things, the rainbow sticker on the bookstore window, the trans flag pin on a barista’s apron, and the affectionate lesbian couple sharing a coffee by the shore. These aren’t just symbols—they’re signals that OBX is a place where we’re not just tolerated but embraced.
Pride in OBX isn't about massive parades or corporate floats. It’s about community. It's a reminder that even in quieter corners of the country, queer people are living, loving, and thriving.
Supporting the Local Queer Community
The heart of OBX Pridefest is its community, both local and visiting. Many businesses show their support year-round. A few to check out:
Duck’s Cottage Coffee & Books (Duck) – A charming spot where LGBTQ-inclusive literature and community love go hand in hand.
Swells ’a Brewing (Kill Devil Hills) – Hosts Pride events and supports LGBT causes throughout the year.
The Blue Point (Duck) – An LGBTQ-owned waterfront restaurant known for its Southern-inspired, locally sourced cuisine and unbeatable sunset views over the Currituck Sound.
And don’t forget to swing by OBX Pride’s website to support the nonprofit that makes this festival happen. Their work creates safe, joyful spaces for queer folks across the Outer Banks.
Tips & Tricks for Pride
Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate
The coastal sun is no joke. If you’re going from the day festival to night events, you’ll want to pace yourself and drink plenty of water.
Book early
Events like drag brunch and the beach party can fill up fast. Secure your tickets and accommodations ahead of time to get the best spots.
Lodging options abound
Whether you’re traveling solo, as a couple, or with a whole crew, OBX has something for everyone: charming B&Bs, group-friendly rentals, and even campground stays for the adventurous.
Dress confidently
This is your time to shine. Whether that’s in a rainbow tank, a flowy dress, or a swimsuit, Pride is all about expressing your most authentic self.
Allies, we see you
You’re welcome here, too, but please show up with love, support, and respect. Pride is focused on the LGBTQ+ community, all we ask is that you’re a good guest in our home.
The Vibe
OBX Pridefest is exactly what you’d hope for from a coastal celebration, breezy, joyful, intimate. Expect a mix of locals and out-of-towners, many familiar faces, and the kind of community energy that only comes from a truly welcoming place. My personal Pride vibe leans toward daytime hangouts, and I’m especially excited for the beach party—it’s the perfect mix of low-key and high-energy fun.
Final Thoughts
Whether it’s your first time attending OBX Pridefest or coming back for another round, I hope you leave with more than sun-kissed skin. I hope you feel full of joy, seen by your community, and welcomed by this beautiful corner of the world.
Pride is still a protest—but it’s also a celebration of how far we’ve come. And in OBX, it’s a celebration worth traveling for.
